What to Do With Unresolvable Conflicts

There are conflicts that permit no resolution.  They can only become worse.  Like the tar baby, the more we poke at them the more entrapped we become, and what seemed so inviting, so clearly defined and in need of our investigation and probing became a frightful mess.  Better to leave some things alone.  Living around them beats trying to work through them. As you encounter those conflicts, better to remove them from the agenda.  That is the resolution.