My father was a writer. He wrote all of his life, inflicting upon many of us his novels, plays, articles, essays, and self-help books. Some were marvelous; some merely well-intentioned. But of all the things he wrote, his journal is his legacy: by turns wise and bewildering, it neared 1,100 type-written pages when he died in 2010. Although perused many times, this is the first time it will be read - cover to cover, page after page.
Tuesday, August 7, 2012
The Beard
I grew a beard and became aware of people's inclination to see what they wish to see. Some looked and pretended it was not there. It was not growing out of my face, because they did not want it to. Others seeing it decided if nothing were said it would go away - it would maybe grow inward, disappeared into whence it came. Others still pointed and laughed, and they were the most real. They saw and had a name for what they saw. Scraggly as it seemed, there it was in all its blackness, redness, brownness, and flecks of white. A reality. Nor is it only hair we wish to deny.
Labels:
communication,
denial,
people
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