The Doubt We Borrow From Others

We may never be entirely without doubt, at least in terms of ourselves.  There will, in significant areas, be concern about whether I am doing it right, am I being me in the way that is best.  There is also the doubt we borrow from others, wondering will they approve of how I am being me.  This latter is the less significant consideration though it can loom quite large, and "them" -- as we fear or as we see them -- can seem to take control.  If that is the case today, then take it back.