My father was a writer. He wrote all of his life, inflicting upon many of us his novels, plays, articles, essays, and self-help books. Some were marvelous; some merely well-intentioned. But of all the things he wrote, his journal is his legacy: by turns wise and bewildering, it neared 1,100 type-written pages when he died in 2010. Although perused many times, this is the first time it will be read - cover to cover, page after page.
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
Cycle of Cruelty
Following their first act of cruelty came others to keep them dominant over those they had injured, fearful always of retaliation. Over time there were only more and more cruel acts, more people injured and so more vengeance to fear. They needed with each act to feel increased justification for what they had done, and their fear turned injured people to a thread against which they must be vigilant and pre-emptive in their attacks. They blamed victims for being angry, pressing the repression more tightly, and so compressing and solidifying the rage. Where retaliation did seep out it seemed a massive dose of new cruelty was the only remedy considered, and so the cycle spun faster with less likelihood it could be controlled.
Labels:
cruelty,
fear,
justifications,
retaliation,
vengeance
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