Driven to Unattainable Goals

If people have reasonable expectations and understand the limitations life imposes, it becomes a simpler process.  Not having clearly defined goals and being driven to attain them, hoping they will become clear in the pursuit, is to instead increase their obscurity and it is a self-sustaining process so that we are forging deeper into obscurity and thinking it is light.  To expect what is unattainable or unavailable to us (though it may be possible in someone else's life) is not helpful