Different Realms

Some things will always be special.  What follows is not less for being different or for happening later.  It was just not there at the beginning and so was not there to share in a moment, or a time, that does not become retrospectively available.  Some friendships and some loves are this way too.  They were there when things happened -- things that cannot happen again; or they were a first, a realization or sharing or what no one else will ever know.  It is not that one is better for being then or that the other is more for being now.  They reside in different realms and each can be sacred.